THE IMPORTANCE OF KEEPING THE FEMALE VIRGINITY BEFORE MARRIAGE IN ISLAM..........

I got this very beautiful post from a facebook user named Zainab Abolore

Virginity is a very strong sign of chastity in islam.it cannot be underestimated today no matter what reasons we choose to profer here or else where. The Prohet S.A.W . recommended marrying Virgins that does not mean only those with intact hymens but those who never attempted premarital sex till the time of Nikah. Meeting the hymens intact or seeing blood stains on the first night is not as important as knowing that no man has touched the lady before getting married for the first time.

 The nikah of those married as Virgins are not the same with those married after they have lost their virginity through premarital sex becoze their first partner remains on their mind.women should strive to keep their virginity till their first night in marriage for the first ever legal husband. That is the joy of it all and that is the culture that Islam treasures out and also a practice treasured in so many tribes and culture of the world. ..........virginity may not tell you the state of the heart but it definitely sends a strong message of morality, fidelity, chastity, loyalty and good home training and upbringing. No right thinking man will like to wish away such rare and invaluable precious qualities in a woman. ...We are not marrying from Hollywood, Bollywood or Nollywoods, we are marrying from a pool of well trained Muslim sisters from good islamic homes.that is why Allah has says that the fornicator should marry the fornicatoress and the pure and chaste men should also marry the pure and chaste women ..

I am saying that only Virgins are chaste but being Virgins at the time of Nikah is a sure proof of chastity. Ofcourse there are exceptions but they must remain exceptions because the accepted and recommended norm in islam is to marry Muhsanat which means chaste women either from the never married who are expected to be Virgins and previously married chaste women from amongs the widows and divorcees who must have been married as Virgins the first time they got married. However Virgins are given first priority over the previously married chaste women in the sunnah of the Prohet S.A.W. Those who lost their virginity before developing islamic consciousness but later sincerely repented are among the chaste women but they are not equal with those who eventually married as Virgins.

That is why the Prohet S.A.W said that paradise is guaranteed for any Muslim man who succeeds in raising three,two or even one daughter with sound morals till he marries them out.This is their reward for marrying out their daughter as Virgins. And the Prohet S.A.W said that the cuckold men who allow their wives and daughters to go out of the home indiscriminately and live immoral lives will not smell the aroma of paradise and will not enter it....

Our young Muslims girls must be taught to values ,cherish and jealously guard their virginity and the importance of keeping the intact till they reach maturity age of getting married so that they are not discriminated against when looking for marriage partners in the future. Parents too must learn to protect their young girls from possible sexual abuse and rape incidences by never leaving them alone with strange men and grown male relatives who may abuse them.. ....

There is no way of establishing or differentiating the way of losing avigirginity once it is lost.No one can say the difference between a"one -time offender"a"chronic offenders "and a completely innocent lady who has lost her virginity so it is better kept intact till the nikah day.
We as Muslims and nd as good cultured and morally upright pple of the world must continue to praise.,glorify and recomm
ended it as the Prophet S.A.W . did and nd taught us to do as a valid and strong sunnah that has come to stay.
Ladies keeps ur virginity
May Allah keep us guided. Ameen.