Here are the 10 reason Reasons Below:-
You're not lubricated enough
Even though your vagina is a natural self-lubricator, if you're not turned on enough or boozed too much at the bar, you could suffer from dryness. Just use lube.
You're allergic to your s..x toys or products
While we're on the topic, you can't just go to the drugstore and buy the cheapest thing on the shelf. Lubricants are made with different chemicals, which can throw off your v..gina's pH balance—the same goes for things like latex c0.ndoms. If you feel any sort of irritation after use, try to stick to "natural"-based stuff and see how that fares with your body.
You have ingrown hairs
Sometimes a botched bikini wax can leave you with unpleasant pimples, which can be painful when there's friction. Not much you can really do—except pop that zit like a boss.
You maybe using the wrong positions
Blame kama sutra books for introducing you to how-the-hell-do-they-contort-their-bodies-like-that s..x positions. It's always good to experiment and deviate from your normal routine, but the Butter Churner (google it) might not be for you. Keep in mind that a guy's curvature can make your go-to moves feel a little off, so FYI.
Your partner could be too big
No guy is ever too large-and-in-charge to wear a condom. Period. But when it comes to
penetration, a man's love gun might not fit into your, er, pistol box. In a sense, you need to be "loosened" up by trying simple s..x moves first—think missionary—or turning yourself on more (hello, foreplay!). But don't freak out by his endowment—your vagina won't be permanently stretched by it.
You just gave birth
First off, if your libido can bounce back right away after childbirth, GO YOU. But caution: Since your vagina was basically just destroyed—love ya, [insert baby name]—it'll take your body so time to get back to its former glory. Some doctors suggest four to six weeks after childbirth as generally okay for you to get your groove on, but it all depends on your body.
You have an STD/STI/pelvic disease
Yeast infections suck. Fibroids and pelvic inflammatory disease sucks. Herpes sucks. Know who you're sleeping with and get tested regularly if you're not in a monogamous relationship.
You're a V
Um, Steve Carell was one for 40 years—not really, but how great was that movie?! If you've been saving yourself for the right moment, you can probably expect some minor discomfort. After all, the hymen is a physical wall blocking entry.
You haven't had sex in a long time
S..x slump, dry spell, whatever you want to call it, the struggle's real. Seriously, if you don't use it, you'll lose it. We're not saying you should jot down sex in your planner, but just know it's totally normal for it to hurt if you haven't done it since
Game of Thrones season 1.
You jump right into IT
Forget every Lifetime/Nicholas Sparks/
Fifty Shades of Grey sex scene you've seen. Diving head first (interpret as you wish) into s..x can create unnecessary friction between your v..gina and his manh0od. Take a cue from a wise tortoise: Slow and steady wins the race.
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